Ten Ways to Make Your Mom The Happiest Mom on Earth

By: Modhomeecteacher May 05, 2010

created at: 05/05/2010

Don't fret for a moment about what to get your mom for Mother's Day. The best thing you can do is to spend time with her (no irritation or annoyance allowed), or have a nice, relaxed conversation with her.  No store bought card or pot of flowers will touch her heart as much as your efforts to express your sincere appreciation for her, past and present. To help you get started, here are ten mostly free ideas to choose from that are guaranteed to make your mom happy. 

1. Go shopping with your mom. I know, this might feel awkward, but it will prove to her that you really want to spend time with her. Possible bonus: she'll end up being so grateful, she'll start buying you stuff.

2. Tell her to invite a couple of her best buddies over and you'll make lunch for them. There's nothing better than a mom getting to show off her pride and joy to her friends.

3.  Help her with some sort of redecorating project. It could be tedious, but again, it shows you're so interested in being with her and helping her that you're willing to make the sacrifice.

4.  Ask her what movie she's been wanting to see and then plan a time to bring it over and sit down together to watch it. Again, it's the idea that you can take time for her that will deliver the impact.

5.  If the time is right, tell her how you realize that some of your best qualities came from her. She'll love the compliment, but she'll be even more thrilled that you've reflected on this.

6. Tell her about something going on in your life and then ask her about what things were like when she was this age. Most moms want their kids to know that they're not that far away from their kids. The memories of being a young adult are still vivid and life was equally exciting and perplexing.

7. If you have your own kids, ask your mom how she handled certain situations like your obnoxious childhood friends or the obnoxious parents of your friends. She may have worked through some things and may have helpful insights.

8.  Take a photo of you and your mom together, print it, and frame it. She'll think of you and that moment every time she looks at it.

9.  If you live in different cities, tell her what you're doing on Mother's Day and then tell her how much you wish she was there so you could do it together. This will maker her feel almost as good as being there.

And finally,

10. Sincerely tell her what a great mom she has been and what a happy childhood you had. Then, the absolute best thing you can do is to tell her that you still value her wisdom and experience and that you're grateful she's the one that is still scouting ahead for you, and you'll always need her good advice. Now top it off with a cherry by saying "I really love you Mom."

Cost: almost nothing

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i love you mom! thank you for bringing me into the world. i learn a lot from you. no matter what will happen to us, we will always be together happy and laughing out loud. you are such an awesome mom. Im always going to be with you no matter what. thank you... your lovely daughter

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i love you mommy!!!ill make you happier!!!P.S.YOURE SO AWESOME!!!
I love my mum so very much. She gave up her job as a bank accountant. Our nanny was very mean but our mum gave up work just for us. She does everything for us even if its out of her comfort zone. I LOVE YOU MUM!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you mom . You are the best mom in the world and i am very lucky that god me such a loving caring mum . I can do anything for you maa. I want her to keep happy and smiling .Mum its only because of you i am alive today .Thank you maa love you .
My mum is the best in the world!!! She's a really caring person and I really love her. She can do anything for me and I can do anything for her. She is the worlds best mum

am still having problems with my mom i dont know if it will work

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I love my mum sooooooooooooo much she'll do anything for me and I'll do anything for her. If ur mum isn't as nice and caring as mine then just try and do what they say I know it seems hard but just try it and u and ur mum just might get closer. If it doesn't work tell ur friend or someone about it and see if they can help. But don't feel bad that some mums are nicer than others. If ur mum starts abusing u, u need to tell a teacher or the police. U may not want to get ur mum into trouble but if ur put in harms way then its what u need to do. I love u mum thank u for being there even though I only see u half the time ( I have divored parents). Keep trying x

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To nana,

It is not a childs job to make there parents happy.  Nor is it a parents job to make their children happy.  Some of the suggestions here are very good.  Showing her you want to spend time with her is the best thing to do even if it is only a short time. Share with her things that are happening in  your life.  Be honest...for just like children, parents can see when their children are being false.  They can also see when you are making an effort and will appreciate it.  It does not have to be big.  If things are strained tried writing to her.  Even if you dont send it it can help you sort out your own feelings and perhaps see it in a new perspective by reading it on a different day. S

Good luck

A mom

Well my problem is my stepdad and mom have been fighting. It's now Christmas and we talk to each other unless it's yelling at each other. I really need help on how to make this a good Christmas and I've tried everything I can think of or search up :(

My mom works 24/7, to support me .. I feel as if I am a ungrateful child. I just want to see my mom smile and  laugh. And just be happy again . 

My mom and I never really got along, but after using these tips we got closer as family and friends. I know it sounds cheesy but I LOVE YOU MOM????
I was never really that close to my mom and we never spent a lot of quality time together, after reading this we got closer as family and friends. I????U MOM
Me and my mom don't get along, and I always feel like I can't win on trying to make her happy. This gave me ideas so I don't have to cry or hurt so much anymore. I love my mom very much, and she has always been hard on me but she says it's for my own good. I love you, mom. And I hope you love me too.??
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My mom finally knows my struggles and what i went through and she accepts me or my strengths and weaknesses and wants to see me change and im trying to beat this pain i feel im sorry mom i didnt mean it and i love you.
MY MOM IS AWESOME!!
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