Well asides from corny love is great.  Now don't get me wrong Boe and I have got our ups and downs but in the last two years we have been through a lot.  My son has had some mental issues which we belive is genetically tied to his biological dad, whom I divorced.  Devin really hurt anither child and some adults at 4 years old, so we have been through a lot of doctors and psychologists trying to control his behavior so he is not a threat.  Even though Devin is not Boe's bio-son he has been the greatest father ever, more than i could have hoped for and very supportive of the both of us.  Devin has always called Boe Dad and in truth he is his father, blood doesn't matter. 

It is romantic between us, but to tell the truth marriage is about compromise and learning about each other and accepting the other one flaws and all.  (God i sound like my mom. scary!)  I love him very much though and hope to add on to our family soon.

I am sure that you will find that other person out there.  And believe me it strikes you when you are not even really looking but when it does you will know.  There is a comfort level there that is hard to explain.  I don't think you will freak out when it happens.  Just always trust you gut feeling and let the good times roll.