Well asides from corny love is great.  Now don't get me wrong Boe and I have got our ups and downs but in the last two years we have been through a lot.  My son has had some mental issues which we belive is genetically tied to his biological dad, whom I divorced.  Devin really hurt anither child and some adults at 4 years old, so we have been through a lot of doctors and psychologists trying to control his behavior so he is not a threat.  Even though Devin is not Boe's bio-son he has been the greatest father ever, more than i could have hoped for and very supportive of the both of us.  Devin has always called Boe Dad and in truth he is his father, blood doesn't matter. 

It is romantic between us, but to tell the truth marriage is about compromise and learning about each other and accepting the other one flaws and all.  (God i sound like my mom. scary!)  I love him very much though and hope to add on to our family soon.

I am sure that you will find that other person out there.  And believe me it strikes you when you are not even really looking but when it does you will know.  There is a comfort level there that is hard to explain.  I don't think you will freak out when it happens.  Just always trust you gut feeling and let the good times roll.

I want you to try something seriously. I had the same problem as Devan. Can you imagine me with an ax threatening people? lol no no I never did THAT... but childhood temper, yes!

Try to cut out certain foods from his diet. Give him as many fruits and veggies as possible.

It's hormonal. The diet makes a HUGE impact. Processed foods cause major hyperactivity and craziness, and imbalances. I don't think there is anything wrong with his brain. Food is a natural medicine. There are even diets for autism, that completely cure it, the foods are THAT powerful and dangerous, to make someone change from that state... Try everything imaginable with food. I feel SO stronly that he will calm from diet changes. When they hit 9, its detrimental, thats the age where big allergies to food starts, and physiological changes happen.... cut out mucus forming foods, cut out processed foods, cut down sodium and salt, sodium is a killer, causes hypertension, blood pressure and inflammation... He is a sensitive boy. I also think he is influenced by other kids. I don't believe it's all his fault. A friend of mine has a 4 yo son, and he started spitting at her, hitting her and wouldn't take baths. No one knew why. Then she found out, a boy was harassing him secretly. She took him out of the school and they reward the kids with stickers for good behavior...

I wish you could home school him. Home schooled kids do better at test scores and achieve more later in life... All of those outside influences are unecessary. And then they start wanting to medicate the kids when they don't really know the source of the problems. And if he is home schooled, he can do other activities, like take karate, and arts, and music on the side.

Get him enrolled in karate, he has physical energy that needs to be expanded. Karate helps them focus their mind also. There is a lot of meditation involved. Its also very spiritual.

karate kids are very disicplined and structured. Get him into right away! The karate will transform him!

Get him busy with physcal activities, forget about letting a bunch of know it all idiots try to pry his brain.

The solution is all physical and food. Food and mood are so powerful. 

I know he's going to be great!