I'm a big fan of the non-traditional wedding cake. My wife and I wanted something a little more creative. While we still had a cake, it was a far cry from the norm. I must say that mine was a big hit and I was glad we did it. As long as you have fun, do whatever you choose for youselves and not anyone else.

I'll post our cake on my profile. May give you some inspiration.

We're skipping a cake too, and some people I tell are really freaking out about it!  Like Bruno, we're planning an alternate dessert (actually, want a sampler of 3 small desserts - creme brulee or flan will be one, need to decide on the others).

Weddings are supposed to be personal too you.  I just think making one look like you is not right, kind of vain.  Now brulees, and other things such as cupcakes, or like the french: croque en bouche http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/realweddings/145051/detail/145060

is another alternative too.  Have fun and enjoy your wedding.

It's not controversial in the least! We went to a wedding a while back and instead of cake they served  chocolate truffles. I was in heaven.

Thanks Maven! Actually, we're skipping the cake (controversial, I know), in favor of miniature creme brulées, stacked cake-like, or course.

What do you guys think? Is skipping the wedding cake a big no-no, or are cakes just overrated budge-breakers?